On Friday after a day of work Robert joined me at the 4H office to attend a Couples Cooking Class. He was sweet enough to join me so that I could hopefully gather some useful information to be used in our Family Night Out activities at work. Also with us were Jess and Bryce which made the class much more entertaining! It ended up being a fun class with some thoughtful information on relationships. The couple that taught the class were very sweet and genuine and it was fun to go and be reminded how to build your relationship with your spouse and work together to accomplish life goals. The main parts they focused on in correlation with the cooking were; you need to have a vision of what your life together will be or accomplish- this is like looking at a picture in a recipe so that you can see the final product, having all the right ingredients to make your recipe-or the traits needed to be a good spouse, following the directions in the recipe in order to get the final product-things to do together to accomplish your vision, and serving the meal was like keeping your relationship warm:). I liked that they said to keep your relationship warm rather than hot which is how popular media generally displays relationships. They said that when you are always looking for highs in relationships you may be disappointed because highs are generally followed by a low. Rather you should focus on the little everyday things which will make up the majority of your relationship, this way you are making sure your relationship is always warm. They obviously did a much better job of talking about this.... They also quoted the movie Up when the little boy is talking about he liked doing the "boring stuff" with his dad which I thought was so cute and really so true-I think that it's the little everyday things that Robert and I do that mean the most, like making dinner together and playing games. For the cooking part we actually made whole wheat waffles, I was a bit skeptical at first but it was fun and pretty tasty as well. They had a drawing at the end for some books and videos and I won the book Fanny's Dream-it is such a sweet story!
Now it's Sunday and we are home from Church just relaxing and recovering from the week(yesterday wasn't enough recovery apparently). Robert and I got set apart today at Church as members of the activities committee so we are excited to start planning some ward parties together!
3 comments:
I wish I could have gone to the cougarettes show. Sometimes it is annoying that Dean has to work so late most nights, it puts a damper on my social life, LOL. Did you and Robert enjoy UP? Camden and I watched it again yesterday. That class looks like it was fun. Congrats on the new calling!
WOW what a long post! I had to stop for a meal and a bathroom break halfway through it was so long...lol JK. I read Lauralee's comment and I thought it said the cigarettes show. I was like WTF, but then I reread lol. That is so funny that Robert wore that apron. Too cute! It sounds like you guys had a very busy but fun time.
I just happened by ... very cute stuff!
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